Candle Light Associates, Inc. is an adult club in the Western New York area. The club is founded by people who share common interests. We are long time members of the lifestyle and are active participants. We believe that, "sex is the extension of friendship and not the cause of it." We also believe that swinging is an attitude, not an activity.  We enjoy meeting couples who are secure in their relationships with each other. We are not interested in cheaters. Swingers don't cheat, Cheaters don't swing. 

Candle Dances and Entice Events provide an atmosphere where consenting adults may meet. We are "classy" people and not interested in brash or hurtful behavior that would embarrass themselves or others. Our personalities are a blend of fun loving, sincere, open and honest people, who will not mislead others into believing things that are not true. We are adventurous and like the 'turn-on" of trying new things and seeing new places.

We always have new couples and single ladies attending our events.  We are very newbie friendly at all of our events.  We understand how importannt and how nerve whacking your first step into this lifestyle is.  We've been there.  98% of our new couples tell us they had imaged the worse and found the best.  We hope you give us a try.

CLUB INFORMATION

We specialized in Events not just meet and greets.  We also host travel adventures and fun outings.  Check out our link on the home page for upcoming events. We are mainly a couples only club, but do allow select singles to attend upon occasion. Discretion is essential. Anyone not exercising common courtesy will be asked to leave.

All of us want to be successful as swingers. It doesn't matter how often, with whom, where, or in what style we swing. One of the nicest things about our lifestyle is that most of us relate to each other with understanding, thoughtfulness, and common courtesy; just as we ourselves wish to be treated. Think C.S.A.S.C. (Common Sense and Social Courtesy).

One of the basic etiquettes in swinging is the right of anyone to say "No".

Experience has taught most people that everybody is not right for everybody else. Improper handling of a situation, however, can lead to a lot of hurt or very bad feelings. The swing world accepts the premise that everyone has the right to say "No" to anyone at anytime and it should be done with a simple "No, thank you". Never give an explanation, because that is what usually causes the problems and the pain.

ALCOHOL OR DRUGS

Most of us do not use drugs, although some of us drink socially. At times, a few drinks are nice to help you "relax". Over-indulging may hamper your physical abilities, as well as offend or turn other people off to you. If you have to over indulge in order to participate in swinging, you are involved in the wrong lifestyle.

PRACTICE SAFER SEX

It is up to us to protect ourselves as well as our partners. With the present concern over sexually transmitted diseases such as syphilis, gonorrhea, aids, yeast infection, etc., the use of condoms should not offend anybody. Anyone not willing to take this precaution is acting selfishly and irresponsibly. You are not being accused of being unclean, but simply someone wishes to provide you both with protection.

We hope that you choose us for your next party. 

Happy Swinging

Bob & Angie